Turning 40 last month hit differently. Got a kid going off to college soon, a mortgage halfway paid off, and a spouse who keeps nudging me to think about “what comes next.” Been avoiding it, honestly. Legal planning for the future just feels heavy—but now I’m thinking it might be irresponsible not to look into it. What should someone like me prioritize first?
Completely get that. Took me until after my second kid left for college to take action, but I wish I’d done it earlier. You don’t have to go it alone either—working with Scottsdale estate planning attorneys made all the difference for me. They didn’t just toss legal terms around—they actually helped me figure out what fit our life stage. Whether it’s assigning guardians, updating wills, or setting up living trusts, they tailor it all. Huge stress relief once it's done.
Following this conversation with interest. The timing couldn't be better—been juggling similar questions. Good to know there are ways to handle this stuff without needing a law degree first. Thanks for sharing these ideas.